Have you ever had a friend who understood you even better than you did yourself? Years ago, I was lamenting to my friend Ginna about someone I adored yet whom I also found sort of insufferably cheery. Ginna smiled and shot back with, "Cut the sugar!" Yes. Could we get that stitched on a pillow?
"What's wrong with being cheery?"
Not a thing. Like you, I love being around people who are happy, excited, fulfilled, and otherwise lit up. They light up those around them. But as you may have noticed—at school, at home, and let's not get started on the workplace—a strength overused is a weakness.
So it is with a positive attitude. We can get so caught up in having one that we gloss over other traits that are equally important, if not more so; for example:
- A healthy sense of urgency
- Good judgment
- The courage to make tough decisions—and stand by them
- The ability to set limits with ourselves and those around us
- Integrity in our work
- Empathy—understanding and appreciating how we affect others
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